Wednesday, December 08, 2004

Well, happy b-day, Joanne. Hope you received my e-card. It just seems like yesterday that we were celebrating our December b-days all together at Lilac. I remember it clearly. We had our White Russians and our ice cream cake from Baskin Robin's. Sandy was wearing that colorful funky hat. I was video taping and wearing my new Handong Global University sweatshirt that I had just received from Joanne (which coincidently I'm wearing right now). "Phillylo" was just a distant, impossible twinkle in Sandy's eyes. End of semester grading stress was in full swing but hey, that never stopped us from having a good time. Just shows you how much can change in a year. Amazing! Well, happy b-day to Sandy, Joanne and me-the December birthday three! (and Ro you're cool even though your b-day is in March)

You know, my only beef with Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is that it isn't the comedy it claims to be. It is a fascinating, unique movie with spectacular acting but a comedy it definitely is not. In an interview with an actor the other day on NPR Terry Gross made the comment that there are actors that you watch and think, "There's an actor." and then there are actors that you watch and think, "There's a normal person. That could be a person at Starbucks or at my work." The latter was definitely the case with Kate Winslet in this move. She was so convincing. I had no idea that she was that great of an actress. Jim Carey was also pretty good.

The movie had an almost hypnotic, dream-like quality to it. A lot of the movie takes place in Jim Carey's mind, his memories to be more specific. But his memories seem to take on a mind of their own much like our dreams do. We are in control of our dreams supposedly but they seem to interact with us in strange ways. At one point Jim Carey is telling the doctor that he no longer wants his memories of his girlfriend removed but the doctor responds it's too late I'm a memory in your head that you're talking to. As Jim Carey relives his memories that are being removed the memories start to distort similarly to how our dreams sometimes become distorted. It was actually a bit disturbing at times but I still enjoyed the movie. However, it won't be a movie I'll watch over and over again.

Okay, I promised myself that I'd reflect on some of the academic stuff I'm currently reading instead of just talking about silly stuff like the links in my profile! :-) But alas, I've run out of time and my stomach is rumbling. But I really, really am going to try to hash out some of my ideas that reading The Lexus and the Olive Tree is provoking in my next entry. Ha, famous last words of this blogger but I really am going to try. :-)






7 comments:

hyunjung said...

Hey Mac,

Thanks for the birthday cheers. . .I was feeling quite bummed about the day as I spent almost all of it on the plane to Korea. And your description of last year's celebration totally reminds me of how it was just a year ago, all of us together in a super fun present exchange. Funny that. . . as while I was being unbearably squished on the plane, I did feel a funny subconscious tugging of a memory of a better time. Anyway, have a fantastic birthday Sandy!

Sandy said...

Joanne Joanne! Happy birthday dear! How sad that you spent most of it on the plane. I hope that you have a special day-after-your-real-birthday-birthday-celebration. I'm sure it'll be nice to see your family again.

Joyce, I love this entry. I love this memory of us at Lilac. I was laughing at the "twinkle of phillylo" comment. It made me miss Korea terribly.

Love you all and miss you very much.

roberry said...

Happy post-Birthday Jo! And happy birthday Sandy and happy pre-birthday Joyce!!!! Has a year really past since that night? It's still so freshy in my mind. Ah, the good old days. I miss all of you SO much.

Anonymous said...

Howdy Joyce,
I just caught up your blogger, I am still waiting for your after election opinion's. j/k I just know watched the Eternal Sunshine movie about a week ago for the first time. I don't know if I was extra emotional when I did, but it left a pretty good impression on me. So when are all of these Dec. Birthdays?

Anonymous said...

The last post is from me, James

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday Joanne and thank you for the poetry it spoke volumes to me. God Bless

jt said...

hi james. yeah, maybe i'll get around to those discussions. but as you might have noticed and i've noticed i'm very much a "blogger of the moment" meaning most of the time I can only write about what i'm thinking about at that moment. it's harder for me to conjure emotions about past thoughts or moments.

Hey James, anyway I've noticed we were born on the same day! Dec. 26th Sucks doesn't it? :-) Oh well...we are loved by God. Sandy Dec. 11th and Joanne the 8th But hey, James happy early B-day!

By the way, what are thinking about which kind of school you're going to go to? And what are you interested in majoring in?

Joanne, that's a bummer you were on a plane for your b-day! But just know we were sending you b-day love radio signals through the air-waves.

And happy b-day sandy-ola...lots of love your way and Ro I miss you so much too and look forward to you paying for my plane ticket to go see you up north for New Years..:-) hey, I'm not joking....